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The First Go’el

The First Go’el Lectionary01 December 2019First Sunday in Advent Isaiah 2: 1-5 If you survived “Black Friday,” you have now made it to the eve of “Cyber Monday.” This is the day that starts at midnight and signifies huge online discounts. Cyber Monday has become the least productive day of…

The Dwelling Place

The Dwelling Place Story Lectionary 24 November 2019 Christ the King Sunday / Reign of Christ Sunday Jesus’ Transfiguration (Story Lectionary) Let There Be Light (Genesis 1) Moses and the Burning Bush on God’s Mountain (Exodus 2) Witnesses to Moses on Sinai and the First Covenant (Exodus 24) Moses in…

Holiday Sermon Blues? –Preaching Tip for 11-24-2019

Searching for new ideas for the holidays? Try looking around you! Look for metaphors that may be right before your eyes. Cornucopia, Fruit, Garden, Harvest, Turkey, Cranberry Sauce, Table, Family, and many more. Explore some of these metaphors through scripture. You’ll be sure to find many hidden gems that may…

Pastor’s Prayer for Thanksgiving Sunday 11-24-2019

We’ve come to the time in the season
When family and friends gather near
To offer a prayer of Thanksgiving
For blessings we’ve known through the year
To join hands and thank the creator
And now when Thanksgiving is due
This year when I count my blessings
I’m thanking the Lord He made you
This year when I count my blessings
I’m thanking the Lord He made you

I’m grateful for the laughter of children
The sun and the wind and the rain
The color of blue in your sweet eyes
The sight of a high “ballin” train
The moon rise over a prairie
Old love that you’ve made new
This year when I count my blessings
I’m thanking the Lord He made you
This year when I count my blessings
I’m thanking the Lord He made you

And when the time comes to be going
It won’t be in sorrow and tear
I’ll kiss you goodbye and I’ll go on my way
Grateful for all of the years
I thank for all that you gave me
For teaching me what love can do
Thanksgiving day for the rest of my life
I’m thanking the Lord He made you
Thanksgiving day for the rest of my life
I’m thanking the Lord He made you.

–Johnny Cash

Advent is Coming

As we soon begin the Advent season, I am humored by so many that think Advent and Christmas are the same thing. They are definitely related, yet distinctly different. Christmas is the celebration of “Christ With us”. Advent is the celebration of the expectancy of the “Coming Christ”. Yes, I know that Christ is already here… I’m talking about the reason for the holiday, the focus of it if you will. The metaphor I will use to display the difference is this: Advent is like waiting for the first pot of coffee to brew. Christmas is like that first sip. Advent is the anticipation of what’s to come. Sometimes there is such pleasure in the anticipation. Christmas is the taste, flavor, energy, and clarity the coffee brings.

Before Christ can be born, He has to gestate. He is eternal, yet for our sakes, he spent 9 months in the womb waiting to be born to us. I wonder if He was as excited to be born to us as we are now for Christmas day?

For me, I associate the time of Advent and Christmas with music… ok I associate everything with music, but ah, the music of this holiday season…

“O Come, O Come Emmanuel” – Traditional Choir
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“Breath of Heaven” – Amy Grant


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O Come, O Come Emmanuel – Traditional Choir

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The Courage to Be Disliked

The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness (2018)
By Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga
ISBN: 978-1-5011-9727-7
–Review by Douglas Balzer

It wasn’t until recently, 2016, scientists were able to conclusively prove Einstein’s general theory of relativity. What this means is the study of physics operated for over 100 years under the assumption that Einstein’s approach was correct but did not actually know. Think about this for a moment. The scientific world of physics operates for decades with an unproven theory; therefore, decades of work by thousands of people could collapse at any moment if Einstein’s theory were disproved. Contemplating the catastrophic effects this would have on the field of physics is overwhelming. Science, physics has operated in this way that everything is a theory, waiting to be disproved.
We should not be surprised if we see the resurgence of older ideas within the various field of study. The example of psychics is one, but the views of Freud and Jung have been the dominant ideology of psychology for a considerable time now. But, in our time, we see the re-emergence of one of Freud’s and Jung’s contemporaries is becoming part of the conversation. The authors of The Courage to be Disliked, Ichiro Kishimi, and Fumitake Koga have brought back the ideologies of philosopher and psychiatrist Alfred Adler in this book. Adler believed that we all have one basic desire and goal: to belong and to feel significant. Together they have studied Adler’s work for decades and present a modified version of it for our consideration in the present context in the search for happiness.
For pastor’s and semioticians, Adler’s theory provides insightfulness into the human condition of belonging and significance. Observing the dilemma of loneliness experienced by the most connected generations in history is the need to belong, yet we see statistically their experience is anything close to belonging. As far as feeling significant many are seeking the feeling of significance through goals that lead them to brief moments of fame through Twitter, YouTube, and the plethora of social media sites. The overall picture is not one of the healthy human holistic being. Adler developed his theory intimately connected to a humanistic philosophy living that is easily adaptable to spiritual disciplines of Christianity.
Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga use the narrative of an unhappy young man, who engages the help of a philosopher who lives on the periphery of his city. The young man and the philosopher have a series of five conversations through which the philosopher helps him to take control of his own life and happiness. Of course, I do not want to give away to much of the content of this book, so I will just address a few of the lessons brought out by the narrative. Now, here is an overview of Adler’s ideologies that can help us to take charge of our lives, live true to ourselves, and exercise what control we can over our lives!
The first lesson is, according to Adler, your past does not determine your future. The Freudian psychological theory has been our primary orientation that the past does determine our future. Freud’s key term is trauma. It asserts our self-image takes deep root in our psyche at an early age. So, traumatic experiences will lead to determining our future behavior. Freud’s assumption is most of our adult lives are spent trying to fight, unravel, and overcome our limiting beliefs from the past. Adler states this is not true.
While Adler agreed that we form a style of life early on, being optimistic or pessimistic, for example, he did not believe this to be a fixed point in the human character. Adler defended the idea that we can change who we are at any given moment. Even if you could trace all your flaws back to specific traumatic events in your childhood, so what? You can change them now, in the present. Done is done. You have to believe that something different can happen to break old patterns and you can choose a new outlook at any time in your journey.
The second lesson, according to Adler is hating yourself is usually a way of shutting out others rather than necessary. Adler categorizes flaws into two categories: objective and subjective inferiorities. Actual (objective) flaws are ones that are measurable and confirmable, like being shorter than someone else or having less money. Subjective inferiorities, however, are entirely made up and are not measurable or confirmable. One student of the authors admitted he disliked himself because he was too aware of his own flaws.
While talking with the student, Kishimi, too, realized the flaws the young man saw were not real. Primarily, he was coming up with reasons to hate himself to seek isolation from others and, therefore, avoid getting hurt. His loneliness was the cause of his misery, not the effect of the actual shortcomings. According to Adler the only inferiorities we have to actively deal with are the real (objective) ones, and only if they hinder us in reaching our goals. Hence the subjective inferiorities are even there, so be sure to probe them before you deem yourself unworthy.
The third and final lesson I will share from this book is, according to Adler: A competitive mindset destroys your mental health. It is a prominent topic in debates between Western vs. Eastern culture. Eastern countries like Japan and China so have competition, but overall are more focused on cooperation, while Western nations like the US and Germany dramatically focus on the competition of individuals; the winner takes the glory.
Adler stressed that if an individual had to be on top, be the winner in order to be happy, they need to come out at the top of the game, earn more money, get more likes or have more friends, you will be sad and stressed, this is a huge issue. According to Adler, once you let go of a narrow, competitive mindset and embrace abundance, you will never feel like anyone is holding you back. Adler’s central advice is there is enough abundance to go around for everyone, and as long as you begin and continue to work on yourself, you can achieve anything you want!
In the end, I find Adler promotes an empowering, rational, and thoughtful ideology of an embodying a calm, cool-headed lifestyle. Adler’s ideologies are helpful in they bridge the current psychological conversations and are insightful in they provide useful, level-headed approaches to living a happy and fulfilling life.
“The courage to be happy also includes the courage to be disliked. When you have gained that courage, your interpersonal relationships will all at once change into things of lightness.” Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga

The Homing Instinct

The Homing InstinctLectionary24 November 2019Christ the King SundayJeremiah 23:1-6Luke 1:68-79Colossians 1:11-20Luke 23:33-43Text to LifeThanksgiving Day Text: Deuteronomy 26:1-11 Thanksgiving is almost upon us. Got out your stretchy pants yet. Men, how about those sweat- pants that have slide down to the bottom of the drawer? Studies show we gain about…

All That’s Good

All That’s Good: Recovering the Lost Art of Discernment
Hannah Anderson

–Review by Landrum P. Leavell III, Th.D.

Embracing discernment as part of God’s work of redemption is Anderson’s invitation in this book, seeing the world as He sees it, learning to navigate it with confidence and hope. “But what if God wants more for you than survival? What if He has a plan to restore the goodness of the world? What if you’re part of that plan?”

Hannah lives in the Blue Ridge Mountains of Virginia, working beside her husband in rural ministry, and the author of Made for More and Humble Roots. Her writing focuses on faith, culture, and spiritual formation.

The topic of discernment can make some people nervous, but Anderson points us toward good definitions and good practices to discern rightly. Wisdom has many sides, and this book is an accessible approach to the art of discernment. Her approach is grounded in God’s good creation, believing we need to reconsider how God is at work in His world. We have to develop a taste for God’s goodness. We are living in an age of tribalism and “fake news,” and Christ-followers must develop their discernment skills in order to follow Christ in spite of the challenges of this cultural moment. Good is often hidden within the world’s brokenness. Through her engaging storytelling, Hannah revives the lost art of discernment. As one reviewer put it, “Rather than telling us what to think, Hannah teaches us how to think—and with that skill, we are able to fully embrace the goodness of this life.”

Experiences, people, and objects all help us to understand the goodness of God. Anderson helps the reader to navigate life outside the garden, make sense of the bigger picture, and reflect God’s glory within human limits. She includes backstories and shadows with intentional variety, because for those who have eyes to see it, the earth is full of the Lord’s goodness.

The main body of the book deals with the apostle Paul’s “whatevers” from Philippians 4: “whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable…” Each of these virtues traces its roots back to God’s own nature and how Jesus and Scripture reveal it to us. She shows us how far we are from these virtues ourselves, while showing how God preserves us in this world by making us holy—how He sanctifies us through His Word. “The genius of Paul’s advice is that if we seek these virtues in the things we consume, we will also end up transformed.” (58) These are “treasures of heaven.” “When we pursue goodness, He will make us good. And suddenly we come full circle. Suddenly we find ourselves in the center of the record. Suddenly we find ourselves changing.” (59)

Hannah has great stories on the history of pearls as well as the beginning of the coffeehouse. There’s no way to do justice to all of it, so I will simply include a number of the gems found throughout the book:

“Manhandled. What a perfect word to describe what has happened to God’s good world.” (39)

“…in order to be happy, we keep consuming, keep buying, keep indulging—but the whole time, the things we gain leave us empty even as we crave them all the more. We’re not victims of planned obsolescence as much as partners in it.” (51)

“It’s not simply that we have too much information; it’s that we have too little shared reality.” (66)

“It’s not that emotions are bad—indeed, they are good gifts from God. But emotions alone cannot guide us to truth.” (71) “We are relying on our feelings to do something that they were never intended or equipped to do.” (72)

“‘Does this deserve my time?’ disrupts these cultural forces long enough for us to entertain the possibility that not every innovation is an improvement, celebrities do not automatically deserve our consideration, and the latest news story may not be worth reading. We may not yet have figured out what is honorable, but we’ve stopped long enough to get our bearings.” (82)

“God does not intend us to use Scripture simply as leverage in our arguments with each other. The goal of Scripture is to teach us the best way to play the game. It teaches us how to move our pieces, what our goals should be, and how to interact with other players in a just way.” (100)

Regarding purity, “We don’t really understand how faithfulness in our intimate lives predicts and even leads to flourishing in our larger lives.” (113) “The solution to impurity is not simply abstinence or ignorance; it is to pursue whatever is pure.” (119)

Because discernment is learned best in community, the “Benediction” includes a brief review of each chapter, questions for reflection, further reading, and a proverb to memorize—in an effort to move these things from you head through your heart to your hands.

The mention of discernment for some can be a vague, nebulous subject, but Hannah Anderson gives us stories, images, tools, and biblical foundations to approach and apply this much-needed skill in our time and on our watch. All That’s Good is worth your time.

You’re welcome.

The Pardoning of Jezebel

The Pardoning of JezebelStory Lectionary17 November 2019The Story of Tamar: Loyalty is Not as it May Appear (Genesis 38)A Raining Down of Manna (Exodus 16 and Numbers 11)Elijah’s Healing / Raising of a Phoenician Woman’s Son and a Gift of Bread (2 Kings 17)The Story of Jezebel (of Phoenicia, Daughter…

Why Metaphor? –Preaching Tip for 17 November 2019

Why are metaphors so important? They undergird every way you see the world. You may not recognize your metaphors, but all of us live by metaphors that inform what we think and feel. If you want to change your life, you need to first change your metaphors.  

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