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Pastor’s Prayer for 7 July 2019

Fire of the Spirit, life of the lives of creatures,
spiral of sanctity, bond of all natures,
glow of charity, lights of clarity, taste
of sweetness to sinners, be with us and hear us.
Composer of all things, light of all the risen,
key of salvation, release from the dark prison,
hope of all unions, scope of chastities, joy
in the glory, strong honour, be with us and hear us.
Amen.

-Hildegard of Bingen

Tribal Leadership

Tribal Leadership: Leveraging Natural Groups to Build a Thriving Organization

by Dave Logan and John King (2008)

ISBN: 978-0-06-125130-6

 

–Review by Douglas Balzer

 

We have all heard that we are “the average of the five people we spend the most time with” or “a product of our environment.” While these may have some validity, Tribal Leadership: Leveraging Natural Groups to Build a Thriving Organization focuses on the reverse idea: a change of an individual also affects their environment.

 

The climate of a church/company is also known as organizational culture. According to author Dave Logan, culture is the most crucial determinant of a church’s/business’s success. Every church/company consists of tribes, which are the most basic social units in which humans evolved to function.

 

Tribes function in one of the five stages of tribal society. Stages one and two are hostile and apathetic and are not very efficient. Stage three appears when individuals begin to care for improvement on a personal level. Stage four is optimal for churches, thanks to the habit of collaboration that arises. In the stage, five, people abandon the idea of competition and instead focus on the joint mission that drives their purpose.

 

No matter if you are already a leader or only beginning to dream about being one, this book

is going to be a revelation. Let us see how to level up the tribal game!

 

Here are three lessons I learned about tribal development and how to enhance it:

 

A tribe is a social structure that humans evolved to operate within.

 

No matter how prehistoric the word “tribe” may sound to you, it is still the underlying social structure today. This is just how humans are wired. We need others not only to survive but also, to learn, thrive emotionally, and pursue projects that would be impossible to complete alone.

 

In the book Sapiens, Y. N. Harari argues that an average person can support personal connections with up to 150 acquaintances. This is how big a tribe can get before it starts splitting into groups. Usually, a tribe consists of somewhere between 20 and 150 people. This was true for our ancestors 40,000 years ago and has not changed much since.

 

You are a part of several tribes throughout your life. Some of these groups include your family, school, local fishing club, and workplace.

 

Where you work is a perfect example, because it illustrates the primary purpose for a tribe’s existence: working individually on different tasks, while contributing to a common goal. This ensures that everybody plays a part and has a chance to build something bigger than themselves.

 

A tribe fulfills its purpose most effectively when progression reaches stage four or five. But

how do you define those stages?

 

The way people relate to each other determines the stage of tribal improvement.

 

Within a church/company, a tribe is typically more significant than a team but smaller than the organization. All members of the tribe know of each other’s existence, but the degree to which they interact varies.

 

The interactions and relationships between individuals determine the overall culture. We cannot overestimate the importance of human connections, and this is not just Logan’s theory, either. In his best-selling book Tribes, Seth Godin also argues that essential links between people are the most significant advantage the group can ever have.

 

So, what kind of connections do we mean here? First, they need to stem from the sense of security everyone has about their position. People must feel safe enough to put collaboration over competition. This personal sense of safety is what the leader needs to foster at stage three.

 

When people feel safe, tribal interactions begin to focus on collective goals and unite

around shared values. At this point, people start forming groups of three instead of two, or

triadic relationships rather than dyadic. Triadic relationships help collective growth. In

the words of Logan:

 

“Triads lead to a blurring of roles between client, service provider, friend, mentor, and coach. Once the triad is established, all the roles merge and morph, requiring each person to contribute to, and receive contributions from, the other two.”

 

Once the leader knows what kind of relationships support the tribe’s growth, all she needs to do is use this knowledge in practice. The question is, how?

 

To bring your tribe’s progress to the next level, focus on individuals.

 

Upgrading the atmosphere of a group is the leader’s primary responsibility. It is no easy task since the current stage of development dictates how the members behave. Therefore, to level up the group, the leader needs to work with individuals first.

 

A famous example of how to do this is the case of the Griffin Hospital in Derby, Connecticut. Employees there used to struggle with many problems, tribal culture included. The CEO and vice president of the hospital solved most issues by engaging with the staff individually. He asked for their opinions on important matters like patient treatment and new building designs.

 

Consequently, team members felt valued by their leaders. It, in turn, empowered them to shift the focus from their insecurities to supplying better quality treatment to patients. By offering their attention to individual staff members, the management succeeded in upgrading the culture from stage two to three, and then four.

 

Therefore, the final guideline for leaders is that tribes can only move forward one stage at a time. Do not try to rush it and jump, say, from stage two straight to stage four. The collective growth must be incremental and sustained to be authentic and lasting.

 

The people you associate with certainly affect you. But the bold and empowering statement that Tribal Leadership makes is that you can influence your environment, too! This refreshing read will be helpful not only to formally designated leaders but also to anyone who cares about making a difference in their world.

 

It’s A Love Story

It’s a Love Story Lectionary 30 June 2019 4th Sunday After Pentecost 2 Kings 2:1-2 Psalm 16 Galatians 5:1, 13-25 Luke 9:51-62 Text to Life We celebrate the New Year in January, but a lot of big endings and new beginnings occur six months later. The month of June is…

Using Props –Preaching Tip for 30 June 2019

The more you can use props, the more people can feel/embody your message. Try to gather a plethora of touchable items, such as shepherds’ staff, hyssop, olive tree, almonds, and other biblical items, so people can see the items you are speaking about. Not only then are your metaphors visual…

Pastor’s Prayer for 30 June 2019

Medieval Morning Prayer

Jesu Lord, blyssed thou be,
For all this nyght thou hast me kepe
From the fend and his poste,
Whether I wake or that I slepe.

In grete deses and dedly synne,
Many one this nyght fallyn has,
That I my selve schuld have fallyn in,
Hadyst thou not kepyd me with thi grace.

Lord, gyffe me grace to thi worschype,
This dey to spend in thi plesanse;
And kepe me fro wyked felyschipe,
And from the fendys comberance.

Jesu, my tunge thou reule all so,
That I not speke bot it be nede,
Hertly to pray fore frend and fo,
And herme no man in word ne dede.

Cryste, gyffe me grace, off mete and drynke
This dey to take mesurably,
In dedly synne that I not synke
Thorow outrage of foule glotony.

Jesu my lord, Jesu my love,
And all that I ame bond unto,
Thi blyssing send fro hevyn above,
And gyffe them grace wele to do.

My gode angell that arte to me send
From God to be my governour,


From all evyll sprytys thou me defend,
And in my desesys to be my socoure.

Third Sunday After Pentecost

Today we start off with “Thanks” by Ceili Rain.

After you have listened to the above song, read Psalm 3.

Now Listen to this song by Keith Green—(Yes, this is a throwback)

Now, how do you feel?

Now read 1 Samuel 2: 1-10.

Now listen to “Days of Elijah”

What’s my point? No matter what we are going through, even when we don’t “feel like it”, we are His and HE will see us through. Our job is to sit back, hang on, and let God drive. Now I am not talking about a Sunday drive. I am talking about space mountain with no seat belts! Yet, HE will deliver us safe. There is no one like YHWH. He will save!

The Wild Within

The Wild Within Story Lectionary 30 June 2019 Jacob (Israel) Wrestles with God (Genesis 32:22-32) God’s Commandments (Deuteronomy 4-6) Psalm 91: Because He Loves Me, I Will Rescue Him Psalm 3: From the Lord Comes Deliverance The Righteousness of the Righteous Delivers Them (Proverbs 11) The Book of Job Hannah’s…

The Crack in the Wall

The Crack in the WallStory Lectionary23 June 2019The Story of Tamar (Genesis 38)The Story of Rahab (Joshua 1-6)The Story of RuthAll Shall Keep the Passover, one Passover for Resident and Native (Numbers 9)The Story of Bathsheba (the wife of Uriah) and King David (2 Samuel 11-12)Psalm 47: God Reigns Over…

What Happens at the Beach Doesn’t Stay at the Beach –Guest Sermon by Jesse Caldwell

What Happens at the Beach Doesn’t Stay at the BeachGuest Sermon by Jesse CaldwellLectionary23 June 20192nd Sunday After Pentecost1 Kings 19:1-15aPsalm 42Galatians 3:23-29Luke 8:26-39Text to LifeSometime this summer, I’ll bet a lot of you will be going to the beach, whether it be the ocean, river or lakeshore. The beach…

Follow the Metaphor –Preaching Tip for 23 June 2019

Follow the metaphor: Metaphors are like rabbits. You need to chase them down holes and into crevices and into the past wormholes in order to find their origins and their history. Once you understand them in their contexts, you can transport them into current context. The metaphors of baptism and…

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